I’d like to delete my facebook. Would I ever do it though? Probably not. Here are some thoughts on why:
Facebook has become one of the largest social networks, racking up more than 60 million users in the less than five years it has been in operation. This is astronomical growth, and discussion over it has spanned from dinner tables and parties to high school and college classrooms. But what makes it so special?
For one, it has the ability to keep people “in the know.” By enabling one to tell their story without ever having to speak, by introducing oneself without confrontation, for setting up parties and events, and recently even keeping track of basketball scores, online games, and gambling, facebook is changing the way in which we conduct social interactions and turning us into, what one New York Times columnists believes, “Virtual Zombies”. I can send a “gift” to a friend, or poke them. And they can “high five” or “hug” me-all of which where we never actually touch.
Now that heavy company advertising has been added to the site as well as the rush to create the newest, hippest “applications” such as the design for a new online facebook chat room (available within the next year) a new concern arises. How will these two factors control how much time we spend on the site? For example, I recently walked into a classroom where three girls were all playing a popular facebook game, entitled “scrabulous.” They were playing (silently) against each other, without any actual interactions besides their virtual, verbal war. What this highlights is that Information has now turned into sheer entertainment. Instead of what used to be a five-minute stroll on facebooks’ walls, messages and profile pages, hours are being spent monitoring such games.
With more time being spent on the site, it is drawing larger “invisible” audiences- those who only look at profiles but don’t actually post anything. Though privacy settings have been implemented two years ago to control what different types of people can and cannot see, (friends, network, coworkers, etc.) there is still the issue of putting too much of oneself on the internet.
I wonder about the importance of keeping our virtual world separate from our real world, or rather: are we allowing sites such as myspace, facebook, blogs etc. be a legitimate extension of ourselves? A wonderful New York Times Columnist Maria Aspan points out that it is near impossible to delete a facebook account permanently, making it forever traceable and therefore a constant reminder in the lives of those who have ever created one. Aspan wrote in her article, How Sticky Is Membership on Facebook? Just Try Breaking Free that Facebook servers keep copies of the information in those accounts indefinitely. Indeed, many users who have contacted Facebook to request that their accounts be deleted have not succeeded in erasing their records from the network. Same is true for myspace users, and many other social networking sites. This could potentially get us into pickles much later in life, when we are applying for jobs and move from the “binge drinking” college photo’s, wall posts, and comments that are posted during our earlier years of use to more mature and tame aspects.
So, even if I wanted to delete my facebook, some form of it would still be available and easy